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r/health · Posted by u/sakura18635732 19 hours ago.
Am I allergic to people?
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There is this guy who makes me sick when I stand next to him
My chest hurts and I have difficulty breathing
I also get dizzy
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r/relationships · Posted by u/sakura18635732 10 hours ago.
Am I allergic to people?
Relationships
The people in health told me to ask this here.
I feel sick around this one guy.
My chest hurts like I'm in a fight.
I have trouble breathing.
I get dizzy.
I'm not allergic to anything.
What does it mean?
The guy isn't a bad guy so I don't want to be allergic to him anymore.
What do I do to stop being allergic?
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HamLover13 points · 10 hours ago
Is this bait? This has to be bait.
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sakura1863573237 points · 9 hours ago
I'm not fishing though.
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HamLover19 points · 9 hours ago
??????
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cookiedough3 points · 10 hours ago
Way to be unwelcoming to new users :/
I think it's just a kid discovering life! We should be helping them instead of immediately assuming cynicism.
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sakura1863573228 points · 8 hours ago
I'm not riding a bike either.
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cookiedough3 points · 7 hours ago
Cynicism, OP. Not cycling.
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anglerfish13 points · 6 hours ago
??? this HAS to be bait
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the_evil_advisor8 points · 10 hours ago
You can't stop being allergic, OP, because you most likely aren't allergic. Is this "guy" a good friend of yours?
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sakura186357320 points · 9 hours ago
I dunno.
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the_evil_advisor3 points · 9 hours ago
Do you have a good impression of him at least?
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sakura186357321 points · 8 hours ago
Yeah.
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loveladybug10 points · 10 hours ago
You might just feel stressed out because you want to look good in front of someone you admire! That would explain your symptoms!
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sakura186357320 points · 9 hours ago
No I have people I admire and I'm not allergic to them.
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loveladybug13 points · 9 hours ago
I was thinking of a different kind of admiration. Perhaps… a crush? ;)
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sakura1863573237 points · 8 hours ago
No we're not fighting anymore.
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loveladybug21 points · 7 hours ago
…What?
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killing_me_softly9 points · 6 hours ago
Yeah I also think it's a crush!
Very cute that you would think it's an allergy, but like that commenter said, I think it's a LOT more likely that you've just developed a crush on "that guy."
Best of luck OP!
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war_and_loooooove6 points · 9 hours ago
Are you sure it's not a crush OP?
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sakura186357320 points · 9 hours ago
We're both guys.
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war_and_loooooove19 points · 9 hours ago
So what? Guys can like guys!
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sakura1863573219 points · 8 hours ago
I know.
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edgar_allan_poe_fr0 points · 8 hours ago
Is it your first time being attracted to another guy OP?
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sakura186357323 points · 7 hours ago
I have never liked anyone.
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kittypushingoffurglasses7 points · 7 hours ago
Awww so he's your first love! That's so cute :3
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joyfuljokester13 points · 7 hours ago
lmao OP having his first crush ever and thinking he's sick because of it 😂
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mysterio943132 points · 6 hours ago
Welp. Mystery solved everyone XD
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bystander970 points · 5 hours ago
Good luck OP!
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anotherbystander980 points · 3 hours ago
May your love be returned OP!
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lurker_under_the_shadows-19 points · 10 hours ago
Not this again. Can we ban repeating posts?
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kiss_you_sayonara3 points · 10 hours ago
???? Are you stupid?
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I_AM_HERE3 points · 7 hours ago
It's almost as if posts like these are the point of this sub. We should be banning users like you instead.
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r/relationships · Posted by u/sakura18635732 23 hours ago.
How do I stop being embarrassed around this one guy?
Relationships
There is this guy that I thought I was allergic to.
People here said I have a crush but I don't think so.
I think I might be embarrassed to be seen with him.
I always feel sick when we're together.
I feel like I'm in a fight.
But when there are other people around I feel even worse.
He's a nice guy and I don't want him to feel like he did something wrong.
I've been avoiding him because of this.
I know how it feels and I don't want him to be hurt like that.
How do I stop this?
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the_evil_advisor13 points · 23 hours ago
Aww, bless you OP. I think you should listen to previous commenters' advice. It's highly likely that you DO have a crush and that all of your symptoms descend from that one feeling.
Can you elaborate on how you feel about him? I mean beyond feeling like you're in a fight. What is your impression of him?
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sakura1863573219 points · 20 hours ago
He's really strong.
He's part of a group and is pretty responsible.
When he fucked up he ended up taking care of his mistakes without saying it wasn't his fault.
He said it's thanks to me but I dunno.
He's a great guy and he's helped me and my friends before.
We live a little far away from each other but he's always inviting me over.
When I can't come he comes instead.
I guess it's fun hanging out with him.
I dunno.
Maybe we're friends I dunno.
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just_cruising_by2 points · 19 hours ago
Wow? 😂
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loveladybug1 points · 18 hours ago
Awww! Sounds like you really admire him! Yeah I also think it's a crush lol XD
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hi_hello_goodbye_forever0 points · 17 hours ago
Def a crush. Good luck!
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cantthinkofausername29 points · 20 hours ago
From other replies, maybe I'm getting it wrong, but it seems to me like you're not as close as you wish you were. That might be part of why you feel uncomfortable around him: you want to be closer but you're not sure of where he stands and what he wants from you.
Same for feeling uncomfortable when you're with him around other people. Could it be that you feel jealous of his attention being split? Or maybe because you feel your relationship with him isn't as close as it is with other people?
Or maybe your friends tease you about your feelings for him? lol
I would recommend really looking into what you want from your relationship with your friend. You might be attracted to him, you might not.
Regardless, there's clearly something else you want from your relationship with him.
Best of luck, OP.
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sakura186357323 points · 13 hours ago
Okay I'll see.
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blessmemaybe0 points · 10 hours ago
GL
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ilikepancakes0 points · 7 hours ago
Good luck!
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heartbreak_doesnt_kill_but_i_do13 points · 15 hours ago
I would recommend checking his stance on gay stuff BEFORE implying anything about your crush OP :( spoken from experience.
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sakura186357323 points · 10 hours ago
Even if I had a crush or whatever why would I tell him?
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heartbreak_doesnt_kill_but_i_do20 points · 10 hours ago
Oooooooo boy O_O;
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r/relationships · Posted by u/sakura18635732 6 hours ago.
How do I stop having a crush on someone?
Relationships
I guess I have a crush.
It's on this one guy that I thought I was allergic to.
People on here said I might have a crush and I guess that's it.
How do I get rid of it?
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loveless_fool1 points · 6 hours ago
You can't.
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sakura186357320 points · 6 hours ago
OK
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one_day_ill_forget_you3 points · 6 hours ago
Wish I knew
Tell me if you figure it out OP!
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sakura186357328 points · 6 hours ago
OK.
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hahahahahahaha10 points · 6 hours ago
You really can't.
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sakura1863573216 points · 6 hours ago
OK.
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userwhocantthinkofauser3 points · 6 hours ago
You can't really control your own feelings like this… :') It would make life a lot easier if it was possible!
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sakura186357322 points · 5 hours ago
What?
You can control your emotions.
Like stop being angry or sad.
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userwhocantthinkofauser3 points · 5 hours ago
Love is different!
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sakura1863573238 points · 5 hours ago
Whho sad i anyrhkng aborit loivbe?
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userwhocantthinkofauser3 points · 5 hours ago
Wow
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loveladybug1 points · 5 hours ago
Wow
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my_skin_falls_off_around_you1 points · 4 hours ago
Wow
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i_know_my_tropes19 points · 5 hours ago
I think we might have a real life tsundere here.
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sakura186357321 points · 5 hours ago
What's a tsundere?
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i_know_my_tropes13 points · 5 hours ago
You. You are.
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i_also_know_tropes1 points · 5 hours ago
Have you ever threatened to hit your crush just to hide your feelings lol?
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sakura18635732-6 points · 4 hours ago
What?
We've both hit each other.
We fight on the same side now though I guess.
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confusion_abound7313 points · 4 hours ago
…What?
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AM_I_DREAMING3 points · 3 hours ago
??????
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i_know_my_refs_winkyface29 points · 3 hours ago
Incredible lore to just casually drop?
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wise_sensei666921 points · 6 hours ago
You can't control who you love! The most you can do is control your reactions to that love.
The only advice I can give you is to avoid your crush until the feelings fade.
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sakura186357321 points · 5 hours ago
I don't want to.
He's my friend.
I guess.
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wise_sensei66692 points · 4 hours ago
You're out of luck then.
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OURcurioussoulxD6 points · 4 hours ago
Can you elaborate on why you don't want to have a crush on this guy?
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sakura186357326 points · 3 hours ago
I don't want to have a crush at all.
He's my friend and I don't want to feel uncomfortable around him.
When I'm embarrassed I get all red so it's really obvious too.
Everyone is always teasing me about being embarrassed by romance so I think he already knows and doesn't want to hurt me by rejecting me.
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OURcurioussoulxD0 points · 3 hours ago
oh damn :( yeah I can see why you want to get rid of it then.
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cookingeggonlaptop3 points · 1 hour ago
If he's really your friend, then he should just tell you if he's uncomfortable :/ You can't just change how you interact with him purely based off vibes.
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the_OTHER_wise_sensei999616 points · 4 hours ago
I guess that's what everyone always says on here, but I would just advise you to talk to your friend about it?
You can start by hinting at your feelings first if you don't want to fully confess.
Check his reactions and go from there.
If he's really uncomfortable, then you can start avoiding him.
But if he hasn't noticed your feelings and just sees you avoiding him for seemingly no reason, he'll start thinking that you don't want to be friends anymore.
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sakura186357320 points · 4 hours ago
I dunno.
I'll see.
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driving_ALL_of_us_crazy_smiles12 points · 3 hours ago
OP you seriously need to stop going to the next line with every sentence.
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sakura18635732-2 points · 3 hours ago
Why?
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driving_ALL_of_us_crazy_smiles5 points · 3 hours ago
It makes it harder to read.
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sakura186357325 points · 2 hours ago
OK.
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driving_ALL_of_us_crazy_smiles12 points · 2 hours ago
……That easy? O_o??
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sakura1863573249 points · 5 hours ago
I guess I am one but it's none of your business.
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peace_and_love_on_mars19 points · 5 hours ago
Aw OP :( don't listen to that homophobe! They're a sad excuse of a human being who doesn't deserve your time or attention!
There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with liking someone of the same gender.
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sakura1863573259 points · 5 hours ago
Obviously.
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peace_and_love_on_mars23 points · 5 hours ago
oh nvm then 😂
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r/relationships · Posted by u/sakura18635732 18 hours ago.
How can I tell if someone likes me?
Relationships
There's this guy that I think I like. He's maybe my friend. I want to hold his hand and stuff like that. I think.
People on here told me to tell him so that I wouldn't have to avoid him anymore. I told him yesterday and he said "okay."
What does that mean?
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notsohopelessromantic13 points · 18 hours ago
Oof. That does NOT sound good 😭
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heartbreak_never_breaks_me23 points · 18 hours ago
The way you immediately gave up hope 😭
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healing_in_process37 points · 17 hours ago
He was too awkward to reject you directly 😬 stay strong OP, you'll find the right person eventually.
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bad_guesser9 points · 17 hours ago
Ouch, I guess he already knew and is upset that it finally came out into the open :( might be best to avoid him for a while.
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looking_in_the_mirror3 points · 16 hours ago
That happened to me once. The way my (ex-)crush looked at me like I'd run over his dog or something 🙄 well excuse ME for liking you.
Anyway yeah just try to move on OP. This type of guys are just NOT worth it.
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a_listening_ear24 points · 17 hours ago
Can you elaborate? What did you tell him exactly?
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sakura1863573263 points · 13 hours ago
It's been a while since we hung out and he asked me why. I told him I feel weird around him and that's why.
I guess he started getting it at this point because he got really red in the face. He asked me if I understood what I was saying and I said yes.
He asked me if I liked him. I didn't answer cause it's too embarrassing but I'm pretty sure he got it anyway.
He hid his face behind his hand for a while. Like sighing real loud. Then he said "okay" multiple times. He was all weird and even laid down. He said I'd beaten him again and that he was too slow? I dunno. When we fought before he was kinda fast actually and I only won because he gave up early so I don't know what he meant.
After that we walked back to his home. I was staying over for the night by the way. He didn't really say anything else about it but he held my hand I think.
Now he's more silent than usual and he keeps glancing at me.
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i_see_the_truth43 points · 13 hours ago
RIP that guy 😂
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myeyesareopen19 points · 13 hours ago
oh WOW the levels of obliviousness on you OP 😂 rip that guy indeed!
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hasaccesstoyourbrowsinghistory73 points · 12 hours ago
Idk what else I expected from the OP who thought he was allergic when he just had a crush lmao.
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theonlykindsoulhere34 points · 11 hours ago
Everyone is being uncharitable with you OP but ngl I don't know if I would have understood this either lol.
I'm pretty sure you got your feelings returned! Congratulations!
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sakura1863573220 points · 11 hours ago
I dunno…
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myusernamewastoolong30 points · 10 hours ago
Just ask him directly. You've already confessed once, so you won't lose anything by asking for clarifications.
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sakura1863573210 points · 9 hours ago
OK.
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r/relationships · Posted by u/sakura18635732 3 hours ago.
Update I guess
Relationships
I don't really get it but I was told I should give an update. I don't know how to do that so I just did a new post.
There's this one guy that I thought I was allergic to for a while. It turns out that I'm like in love or something I dunno
Because of what people said on here I told him about it.
He reacted really weird after I told him. I thought he was just rejecting me as nicely as possible since we're friends but
It turns out that he's been in love with me for months?
All those hang outs he planned were pseudo dates that he was trying to seduce me with or whatever. Everyone else already knew because he asked my friends for their blessings and for advice.
I guess I'm really lucky
Thank you for helping me. I really thought I was just a piece of shit for being judgemental and avoiding him for no reason.
It's my first time being loved so I'll probably come back for more advice.
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party_goer666666969 points · 3 hours ago
Congratulations!! OMG what a plot twist!! 😂🎉🥳
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sakura1863573210 points · 3 hours ago
Thank you.
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totheblushingbride9 points · 3 hours ago
Congrats!
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sakura1863573218 points · 3 hours ago
Thank you.
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loveladybug11 points · 3 hours ago
Congratulations you two! Wishing you well! 😊
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sakura186357327 points · 3 hours ago
Thank you.
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usually_a_witness_wont_testify17 points · 2 hours ago
Thank you for the update! Such a sweet love story, and hilarious too 😂 I've been a witness to two lovebirds hesitating to take the first step before, so I relate hard to your friends.
Congratulations! :D
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sakura1863573210 points · 2 hours ago
Thank you.
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unwise_sensei333321 points · 3 hours ago
I admire your levels of obliviousness OP. Congrats!
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sakura1863573234 points · 2 hours ago
Thank you. I know someone who has been in love with someone else for three years and the someone else still hasn't noticed.
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unwise_sensei333338 points · 2 hours ago
…Did you learn your technique from them? 💀
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searchingforasoulmate15 points · 2 hours ago
Congratulations OP! Happy to have the final confirmation that you're not allergic to humans lmao 😂
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sakura1863573217 points · 2 hours ago
Yes I'm also glad. I would be sad if we couldn't hang out anymore.
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searchingforasoulmate27 points · 2 hours ago
Okay, no need to rub your happy couple life in my face 🤣
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eagle_eyed_idiot16 points · 1 hour ago
"First time being loved"?
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sakura1863573213 points · 53 minutes ago
Yes I'm trying to get used to it
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eagle_eyed_idiot8 points · 30 minutes ago
……Oh, wow. Gut me like a fish while you're at it 😭 I wish you the best of the best OP. May you be surrounded by love and happiness!
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sakura186357323 points · 2 minutes ago
:)
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WhiteOblon1721 points · 19 hours ago
What's with the formatting lol
uselessfan9 points · 18 hours ago
OP thinks every sentence needs a line break lol.
sakura186357320 points · 17 hours ago
What do you mean
piccoloismydad27 points · 18 hours ago
What do you do with that person? Do you touch them? Share food/drinks?
I would suggest looking into textile allergies or anything that they've handled with their hands. I once had a shellfish allergy reaction because my ex-gf hadn't washed her hands properly.
Also do you maybe always meet at the same spots?
sakura186357323 points · 16 hours ago
We hang out like I do with the other guys
Yes we touch
He shared a drink with a marble one time
I don't know what's in his clothes but there are other guys wearing the same uniform and I don't feel weird around them
He works as a cook sometimes so he washes his hands
We go all around town
None of what you said applies
I'm not allergic to anything
piccoloismydad38 points · 14 hours ago
Maybe you should have started with that last line.
loveletter_in_my_trashcan17 points · 18 hours ago
does it only happen around this one guy? Or everyone?
sakura186357321 points · 18 hours ago
This guy
loveletter_in_my_trashcan13 points · 17 hours ago
I think you'll find your answer if you repost this in r/relationships!
sakura186357320 points · 17 hours ago
What
wafflemaker2 points · 16 hours ago
Oh wait that makes sense! Yeah OP, I would advise going to r/relationships lol ;)
sakura186357320 points · 16 hours ago
Why
877vibekiller778-3 points · 18 hours ago
OP how old are you?
sakura186357327 points · 17 hours ago
None of your business
877vibekiller7780 points · 16 hours ago
Nvm you don't even need to tell me lmao, I can guess. Best of luck with your crush OP!
sakura186357320 points · 15 hours ago
Who's OP
sakura186357320 points · 15 hours ago
What do you mean crush
friendlygoose3 points · 17 hours ago
OP, you don't need to go to the next line every time you start a new sentence. Just add a period, question mark, etc.
sakura186357322 points · 16 hours ago
Where are they
friendlygoose11 points · 16 hours ago
…Wow. Okay, um. Click on the 123 at the bottom left of your keyboard. You should see numbers and punctuations there.
sakura1863573217 points · 15 hours ago
Okay thank you.
sakura1863573237 points · 15 hours ago
What does crush mean?
Who am I crushing?
smileyface888827 points · 14 hours ago
lol
bystander_2424 points · 14 hours ago
lol
25ladies13 points · 14 hours ago
lmao